Marcia, My heart aches for you! I wish I knew an answer, but alas, I don't! Is there any such thing as internet police? Maybe a real stupid question, but you shouldn't feel threatened. I thought I had it bad with a relative who harasses me (and anyone she learns gives me information about the family tree!) It's sad that there are such disturbed people in the world! I hope you're able to get it solved soon! Good luck! Sincerely, Donna