In a message dated 9/30/98 8:42:38 PM Pacific Daylight Time, ethelind@athens.net writes: << Maybe next time someone sends you a rude response, instead of calling them names, send them a note and say something like, "your response seemed a bit rough. Are you okay? Do you need a net.hug? Want to share it with someone?" - bet instead of it escalating into a flame war, you might make a virtual.friend. >> Lin, I don't recall calling anyone names. To the group... Thank you again for your support in this matter and for all your notes. I have been flooded with them and appreciated each one. Let's drop it, now and refocus on what we are here to do!! Lookups and help! Don't forget... I will be in Wenatchee, WA this weekend and the Tacoma Public Library Friday if anyone needs any lookups. Just let me know by tomorrow night or so. Thanks again!! Cheryl