Hello Everyone, I have never used this List Before & I am not sure I am on the Correct List for this type of Situation. Please Be Patient with Me & Let Me Explain. Maybe Some of You have had a Similar Situation. My Grandfather had 2 Sons, He & My Grandmother Divorced, there was little contact with His Sons after the Divorce, As Young Men He actually asked that they stop contacting Him. He had Remarried & Moved away, Him & His new Wife adopted a little girl. My Grandfather never told His adopted Daughter that She was adopted & that He was previously Married or had 2 Sons. Now both Him & His Wife have passed away (about 1 year ago) & their Daughter is an Adult Woman & Married. The Obituary I found on My Grandfather just about confirms that She has no knowledge about Her Brothers but I am still unsure as to Her being told about the Adoption. If I were to Contact Her I would never Lie about My connection (She is My Aunt) But I do not want to be the one to Upset Her. I would Love to contact Her except I do not think I should. Thank You For Your Patience & Any Advice At All Is Greatly Appreciated! CindyKay Florida "CindyKay" <paulmac5@bellsouth.net>