Cindy and listers-- I feel the need to chime in here as I do have experience with this issue. After emails back and forth between this very helpful person regarding my father (he left us when I was very young) and his family's genealogy, he told me he was also my father's child from a previous marriage and there were more siblings. Although I am thrilled to have this whole new family, later I learned that my father had not divorced prior to marrying my mother. My mother is elderly and I have great concerns that somehow she will find out which would devistate her. Tough call on this one. Good luck to you. mglory@hutchtel.net