> When you refer to "that young man" I assume you mean the one who > fathered your aunt's child. > > [email protected] No, I refer to the young man who doesn't know he's adopted. I believe that eventually his mother will tell him. That's up to her, not me. BTW, the birth father never had any interest in the child, never saw him actually, and signed over his rights so that my uncle could adopt him.