Have others realized that Ancestry now allows you to turn on and off your DNA match listing?  Here's ancestry's blog about it: https://www.ancestry.com/dna/testSettings/86CCAB21-D6B7-48B0-A4BE-07220460F9F2 And the message that I get when I click to change the listing status: ================= DNA Matches If you choose for John Doe not to see or be seen by DNA matches, some of the special features that are included with your paid subscription will not be available. You won't be able to: * Discover relatives based on DNA in common. * View DNA match details. * Determine how closely John Doe is related. * Send private messages. *Are you sure you don't want John Doe to see or be seen by DNA matches?'* *=================*