Hi, everyone, I have a family brickwall named Sarah Stebbins and would like your assistance with her please. Would really like to find out who her parents are, etc so more distant Stebbins relations could be traced. Sarah is my great-g-g-grandmother on my mothers side of the family. According to what I have found out to date she was born in 1796, date gleaned from subtraction of her years on her headstone, she was born in Connecticut per the death certificate of her daughter my g-great grandmother, she died 2/22/1871 in Kirkland, NY and is buried in New West- moreland Cemetery in Westmoreland, NY. She was the second wife of William Stillman who was born in Wethersfield, CT in 1777, died 3/1/1841 in Kirkland, NY and is buried in New Westmoreland Cemetery. Sarahs daughter Betsy Elizabeth Stillman Stafford is my line of direct descent from her. Betsy was born in 1813 in Clarks Mills, Oneida County, NY. She married William Harrison Stafford, she died 7/11/1894 in Deansboro, Oneida County, NY and is buried in Deansboro Cemetery. Sarahs will mentions her children as people who will inherit from her but no brothers, sister, etc, husband dead in 1841. A friend of mine looked into the Connecticut 1800 and Connecticut 1810 censuses for me and found the following information. 1800 with a female age 0-10 Azariah 2 females Hartford County Chester 2 females Hartford County Edward 4 females New London County Edward 1 female New London County John Jr 2 females New London County Joseph 3 females New London County Samuel 2 females Hartford County Benoni 2 females Middlesex County 1810 with females 10-16 Azariah 2 females Hartford Edward 2 females in Montville John 1 female in Waterford Joseph 1 female in Waterford I have not followed up on this last information as I do not have sources to do so am hoping that some kind souls can help me please. Do not know if these are the correct father candidates but have never had a place to start until now. The Stillman line is a proveable line into the Daughters of the American Revolution and there are many Stebbins listed in their ancestor books but connecting them to Sarah at this point is not possible. Any help, etc would be most appreciated. I have the children of Sarah Stebbins and William Stillman if anyone is interested, did not list them beyond Betsy Elizabeth Stillman. Thank you for your help. Hope all of you have a great week and weekend. Susan DeHart New York State does not have a copy of her death certificate as they did not keep them before 1880, the local courthouse burned a long time ago that might have had her records and I have never found a family Bible, Stillman nor Stebbins.