Pat, I don't think there is a game being played, just a misunderstanding. Sorry to hear that someone sent a nasty email to you personally, especially after all your efforts for this list. This nastiness was not sent to the whole list, merely his many attempts to unsubscribe by "replying" to emails from the list. It seems you got caught up in these attempts by mistake. He also "replied" to emails from Eileen and Evelyn in his attempts to get off the list. The way I read it, Mary has nothing to do with this person's unsubscribe attempts (except trying to help him do it the right way), so please don't hold it against her. I think sometimes it must be confusing whether mail is coming from someone via the list or direct. Anyway, the offender is no longer with us, so let's get on with our mysteries! You are obviously very sincere Pat, and a great help to mystery-listers. Ruth >Thank you Annie > >But, Now with the latest from Mary ??? (my problem came from a person by the >name of --------and also I had a personal email from him or who? ) I would >not again attempt to Answer. I do not feel free as I did before on the List. >I think someone is playing a Game with us and I am very upset. I did decide >to stay for the present because of ALL the wonderful people who I have grown >to love and enjoy. I will play it by ear and see what the future brings. If >this problem continues then I would have to again decide to withdraw from the >List. > > I would very much hate to do this because of the people who helped me find >my cousin and are helping me to find what happened to my Grandfather. But, >Personal attack is something I never expected since I am very emotional with >each and everyones problem. I appreciate everyone on this LIST, all who know >that I am a sincere person. I enjoy so many of you. I thank the List and the >List Administrator who have contacted me and I pray that this will be >resolved within a short time. I appreciate all of your support .l > > Pat > > >==== GEN-UNSOLVED-MYSTERIES Mailing List ==== >Please consider becoming a Rootsweb contributor. > >============================== >Ancestry.com now has more than 200,000 subscribers! To celebrate, >access to ALL of Ancestry.com will be free from July 18 to July 31! >http://www.ancestry.com/subscribe/freepromo.asp?sourcecode=A11AM