Appeared in the Sunday Oregonian paper Hints for first contact- after you have solved your mystery. Phone contact 1. Make sure you have the right person- save back some identifying information 2. Only talk with the person involved. You do not want to upset a whole family 3. ASK =is this a good time for a personal call 4.Ask person to write down the phone number-what if they pass out or get cut off. 5. If the birth parent does not want contact-be patient & understanding. Besure and give a phoe number and or address--they may change their mind. Hope HOpe Lady Patricia