Thank you Annie But, Now with the latest from Mary ??? (my problem came from a person by the name of --------and also I had a personal email from him or who? ) I would not again attempt to Answer. I do not feel free as I did before on the List. I think someone is playing a Game with us and I am very upset. I did decide to stay for the present because of ALL the wonderful people who I have grown to love and enjoy. I will play it by ear and see what the future brings. If this problem continues then I would have to again decide to withdraw from the List. I would very much hate to do this because of the people who helped me find my cousin and are helping me to find what happened to my Grandfather. But, Personal attack is something I never expected since I am very emotional with each and everyones problem. I appreciate everyone on this LIST, all who know that I am a sincere person. I enjoy so many of you. I thank the List and the List Administrator who have contacted me and I pray that this will be resolved within a short time. I appreciate all of your support .l Pat