I have to put my 2 cents worth in on this one more time. Laura, I have been on this list for a while now and can tell you that I believe it contains very nice and caring people. No one would do anything to purposely hurt anyone. This is as some have said, a list. People share stories that are hard to tell and very sad with one another and no one is judgemental or nasty. (Unless some one not on the list hurts one of us, and then we stick up for one another, and give comfort.) We all have mysteries or we would not be here. Thieves, murderers, pedophiles, incest, bank robbers, parents that deserted families, politicians, you name it and someone (or lots of someones) on this list has it in their family somewhere. But that is life, and we have to admit and face it and go on. We are all here if you need us. I hope we will be allowed to help. Merry Christmas to all, and to all a goodnight! Portia Haynes