Anybody else but me think that we have been 'had'? Don't you guys think this is a very odd way to address a list? She can't be all that much of a newbie, either...not if she could find her way to this list and get herself subscribed! She certainly HAS to know how lists run, and it isn't by asking for personal responses to a mystery that isn't stated!!! :) I had a strange feeling about this one as soon as it was posted (daaaa! That didn't take a stroke of genius!:). Has anyone tried to contact her directly? Anne > Hello my name is Laura and I have a family mystery that is anything, but run of the mill. I know everyone says the same thing, but this one is interesting and heartbreaking. It has tortured our family for over 30 years. It is about my mother and we could sure use some help to solve this mystery. Please email me back and I will give you more information. Thank you in advance for all your help in this matter Laura catgirl71@mediaone.net >