Hello Everyone, Just wanted to take a moment and let you know that thanks to eveyone's help and advice i did send the letter to the man thought to be my Uncle. Well he is , he called me about an hour ago. He did not know he has siblings or even when grandpa died. We are planning on meeting. Thank god there was a bit of sunshine on this dark day. I got a phone call around midnight last night telling me my birth father had passed away. If any of you good people ever need a favor please ask...i owe you all. Faith