Hi Alice, I agree. However, why did she not respond to mail sent to her in honest effort to assist her? And no, you aren't starting any problems. This is a fair discussion. I usually don't jump to conclusions, but my feeling when I read it was sorta like when the "yale guys" try to fool Ann Landers. Believe me, if I'm wrong in my opinion, then not only do I wish her luck, but will include her in my prayers. Perhaps I should anyway. Judy