Re: the person who signed the long letter as only ss. I wrote them with several suggestions as to how they could find the details on the fathers death. They wrote back saying that they have decided to forgive and forget. Then they added "we don't know whose reading this email"; because they insinuated that some politician was involved with his fathers death. When they wrote telling me they decided to "forgive and forget". I wrote back saying "fine but you were the one asking for help, I was just making suggestions". The email was returned to me "USER UNKNOWN"! That person is really mixed up in the head, first they ask for help then they don't want it, they send emails then they are worried about who may be reading them! I think the term is paranoid! Did anyone else have any dealings with this person? And what happened? till later, Lynn