I'm sorry some individuals can't see the beam in their own eye. We are not a people of absolute rules for everything we do or don't do. We live by the Spirit, through prayer, to strengthen our families and return them to our Heavenly Father to be with him. As taught by the Prophets, when we live our lives in accordance with the Spirit, we don't need someone telling us we are living "inappropriately". We have the gospel of Jesus Christ and the Holy Ghost to guide us. I certinly think they are better teachers than imperfect mortal man. Ron Gooden