Actually the social aspect of church is very important! If we don't feel welcome or loved, how many people are the point that they don't care? Actually even the strongest care. To fellowship is sooooo important. To see others that are in this with us and uplift each other is the reason for church, isn't it? Or we could just do it at home! We need to get most of our spiritual strength at home anyway right? thats what we are told, so church is for fellowship, opportuities to serve and to love one another. We are social beings! We should realize thatand give ourselves a break! huh! Love ya, Lisa