In a message dated 97-08-15 21:27:06 EDT, you write: << 9. Make the evening his: Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment; instead try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his need to be home and relax. >> and what about my need to get out and relax. LOL Hubby is in the background saying "YES!" Hope you're all smiling. =) Cheri