I think that couples with children struggle more and the potental for REAL happiness is there when you give and share with kids. Those without get to do "funner" things but like my sociology book said, singles get to do more fun things but fun and happiness are not the same thing. And that is a Liberal book! THe world would have us think they are the same. Remember even the elect will be decieved. It is hard to be a parent in a day and age when we get little respect evenfrom members! But as any mom or dad knows when you look at your child and see them sleeping, running, learning how could you feel more joy? Only when you look at the other parent of the child and see them loving, helping and nurturing that child. I rest my case! Love, Lisa