Sisters, Just a quick note to ya all. I know that we are all busy and in the beginning I always made sure my house was clean ect before my VT came over. I have suggested a few times that maybe we could set up a vt help day. I vt some moms with 4+ kids and they are always so busy. One mom I visit is preg with her 5th right now and having a hard time. Last month I called and asked if I could come over and help with laundry while we visited. She was not sure how to take this and i explained that once in a while it would be nice if my vt would come help me while we visited and I wanted to help her. She was doing laundry and I told her to wait for me and I would sit and fold it with her while we talked. It worked out so nice. We did it again this month. I also backed cookies and made a few extra to take over for her and her family. I feel better being able to help out rather than just sit there. We could really feel the spirit flowing around us. This is just something that I have enjoyed and wanted to share it with you. My vt are not very active and I see them about 2 times a year. I tried to vt my friends every month. Deidre