All, There seems to be quite a lot of confusion concerning the marriage to Osbert de Cailly to Emma Tattershale. I tend to support the conclusion that it was Osbert that she married but many sources say it was Adam de Cailly. The castle and manor of Buckenham Norfolk came to the Tattershals through the marriage of Robert Tattershale to Mabel de Albini. Osbert, through his marriage to Emma, daughter and heir of Robert Tatteshall[PJ1] , acquired Buckenham Castle built by William de Arundel in the time of Henry I. [1] [1]Sir Bernard Burke. Genealogical and Heraldic Dictionaryof the Peerage and Baronetage of the British Empire. Harrison and Sons, Pall Mall, London. 1868. P. 199-200. https://books.google.com/books?id=NiVNAQAAMAAJ&pg=PA857&dq=%22de+Kaily%22+wiltshire&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjFns-JxqfLAhXI4CYKHYfyDbYQ6AEIIzAB#v=snippet&q=cailly&f=false In 1244, Osbert de Cailly had respite from knighthood until Christmas and in 1257 was excused from being put on assizes. This would place the birth of Osbert in about 1220, 20 years before the date of birth I can find for Emma which may be speculation. There is some record that Osbert's son Adam was by a first wife. HIL/1/6,869X8 Grant in pure alms by Osbert de Kaylly to Hervey de Brokedis chaplain and his successors. To sustain a chaplain for ever to celebrate the divine mystery in the church of Hilborough on the altar of Blessed Mary for his own soul and those of Adam de Kally and (?Maud) and Mary, his brothers and sisters, and his benefactors and all other faithful departed, of a messuage that Simon his brother quitclaimed to him with land at Flutewong in the vill and fields of Hilborough, the chaplain not to be forced to receive any other chaplain or brother into his house, nor to be part of the grantor's household (ospicium), nor keep horse, hound or bird for him, Endorsed de-Capella Sancte Margarete. (mid-late 13th century). 1240 -1260 Norfolk Record Office HIL/1/2,869X8 Grant by Pernella daughter of Osbert de Cally to Adam de Cally of one third part of a meadow held of him near the water running from Fulmore. (mid-late 13th century) 1250 - 1299 Hare 2163 194 x 3 Inspeximus by Adam son of Osbert de Cailly of two charters of feoffment and confirmation from Clement de Tefford and Isabella his sister to Osbert his father of land and liberty of faldage in Hildeburgworge. Undated c1200-1299 Osbert, then had a son, Adam who seems to have married a Joan, a daughter Pernella and perhaps others. I believe that Thomas de Cailli was the son of this Adam, grandson of Osbert. By 1263, Osbert is holding of the de Plaiz family in Wivelsfield (Wyvelesfelde), Worth[PJ1] , Iford, Mitching, Ovingdean and Wychcenden Sussex which he conveys to Walter de Bersted. [PJ1]Inter Alic. que fuit uxor Hug. de Playz pet' et Ricm. de Playz ten':—De tercia parte Maneriorum de Worthe Chageleye Kingeston Bercamp Iford Wanighore et Werplesburn in com' Sussex et manerii de Leye in com' Kanc et maneriorum de Wetynge Feltewell Toftes et Briseleye in com' Norff' quas tercias partes Alic. clamabat esse racionabilem dotem suam; unde placitum fuit inter eos:—Alic. remisit &c.:—Pro hoc fine Rics. concessit Alic. advocacionem ecclesie de Worth in com' Sussex et predicta maneria de Toftes et Feltewell et advocacionem ecclesie Beate Marie de Weting in com' Norff' et manerium de Leye in com' Kanc excepta advocacione ecclesie ejusdem manerii, tenenda tota vita sua. [40° Henry III. Westm' Oct' Sci. Michis. (Divers Counties: File 14. No. 322). Sussex, Kanc', Norff'.] http://w01.bhocms.wf.ulcc.ac.uk/feet-of-fines-sussex/vol2/pp4-26 Does anyone have information that would dispute the marriage of Osbert to Emma Tattershale? Thank you. Pat