Seriously Jim, it was a bit of a tongue in cheek comment but I have been in a position to watch a couple of families tear themselves apart. I shant leave much anyway but that is because I don't earn much but they have at various times said what items that they would like because of the sentimental value and I think I would prefer to do what my Aunt is doing, give it away before I die. Roz Spending it all is a good idea if you think it would create problems, but we brought our kids up to be self reliant as you would no doubt expect from my expressed opinions. They are both self made, very unselfish and in nearly fifty years have shown only love and consideration for each other as they do to us. Perhaps we are extremely fortunate but I like to think we have had something to do with it. Jim Sharpe Shaw, Oldham. -----Original Message----- From: Roz [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, April 24, 2002 8:10 AM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [GEN-FRIENDS] Premium Bonds [changed subject]. Don't think that because you write your will that is what will happen. My F-in-L did that but his almost ex wife (they hadn't got to the absolute) was able to change it. Kids can go to the court and change what you want. That's why I intend to spend all mine, or give it away to who I want to have it, before I die!!!! Roz --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.351 / Virus Database: 197 - Release Date: 4/19/02 _________________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Get your free @yahoo.com address at http://mail.yahoo.com

I know what you mean Roz it happens in the " best" families. That little s... Linley sold his mother's Caribbean bolthole from under her feet. Jim Sharpe Shaw, Oldham. -----Original Message----- From: Roz [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, April 25, 2002 12:44 AM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [GEN-FRIENDS] Premium Bonds [changed subject]. Seriously Jim, it was a bit of a tongue in cheek comment but I have been in a position to watch a couple of families tear themselves apart. I shant leave much anyway but that is because I don't earn much but they have at various times said what items that they would like because of the sentimental value and I think I would prefer to do what my Aunt is doing, give it away before I die. Roz Spending it all is a good idea if you think it would create problems, but we brought our kids up to be self reliant as you would no doubt expect from my expressed opinions. They are both self made, very unselfish and in nearly fifty years have shown only love and consideration for each other as they do to us. Perhaps we are extremely fortunate but I like to think we have had something to do with it. Jim Sharpe Shaw, Oldham. -----Original Message----- From: Roz [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, April 24, 2002 8:10 AM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [GEN-FRIENDS] Premium Bonds [changed subject]. Don't think that because you write your will that is what will happen. My F-in-L did that but his almost ex wife (they hadn't got to the absolute) was able to change it. Kids can go to the court and change what you want. That's why I intend to spend all mine, or give it away to who I want to have it, before I die!!!! Roz --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.351 / Virus Database: 197 - Release Date: 4/19/02 _________________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Get your free @yahoo.com address at http://mail.yahoo.com ==== GEN-FRIENDS Mailing List ==== If you are unsubscribed from the list unintentionally, simply resubscribe. A full mailbox, computer error, or spam may cause you to be unsubscribed. ============================== To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 --- Incoming mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.351 / Virus Database: 197 - Release Date: 4/19/02 --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.351 / Virus Database: 197 - Release Date: 4/19/02