The same thing here, Roz, the Authorities are terrified of litigation (couldn't remember that word before) Marj > I agree Brian and so did my gran. She was so upset at not being allowed to > have butter. She had eaten butter all her life and considered margarine to > be disgusting but the policy at the home was to use Flora or some such > thing. The other thing she has never worn slippers. Always wore the old > fashioned thick heeled shoes with a 1.5 or 2inch heel but they made her wear > flat shoes in case she fell over and bought her (with her money) some little > lace up flat shoes. They also stopped her wearing her corsets.....you > remember the old whalebone sort of things....and having worn them for most > of her life - she was 98 when she died - she suddenly hunched up more than > she was before. None of those things helped the last years of her life and > certainly made them more miserable. We did try to sort them out for her but > they had answers for us. > > --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.314 / Virus Database: 175 - Release Date: 11/01/02