Joel, Please do stop now....this is getting very personal and can be hurtful to some. You are welcome to be on this list as everyone else is. However you percieve the list should work is a matter for you to take up with the list administrator and then the list administrator can "lambaste" the list membership if they feel it is appropriate. I believe that is good manners and proper list etiquette. Thank you for your comments, Lorraine >I recon this means anything goes on this list > >SORRY > >This one is different from ALL others I am a member of! > >Joel > >Messages as this would NOT be allowed on other rootsweb lists > _________________________________________________________________ Dont just search. Find. Check out the new MSN Search! http://search.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200636ave/direct/01/