This is only my humble opinion, but I thought that the point of the "list" is to share. You read other's posts and you might find a gem somewhere among the list, as well as asking questions yourself. You might feel differently had you found the name of someone who was requested to be the spouse of someone you have searched long and hard for. I have had several people email me and tell me that in these postings they have found someone unexpectedly. I'm sorry if we have cluttered your mail box and you are correct, your contact should have changed the subject line so that you have the opportunity to delete these messages if you so choose. I will do what everyone else chooses to do. If they want to keep it private, we can keep it private but it saddens me to think that in doing that we are defeating the entire purpose of the list. No hard feelings, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Happy Hunting, Cari ______________________________ - ----------------------------