If anyone would feel right about it, here is Lillian's brother's email address. lawrence@vfbc.org Maybe if we all emailed him just stating we're praying for him maybe he'll get off his hands and start giving his sister the support she needs. My email read: I just wanted you to know I'm praying for you. May you do the right thing where your sister is concerned and start giving her the spiritual and emotional support she desperately needs right now. Why not give her a call right now and just say, hey sis I'm here for you and I'm praying for you. You might even find your life enriched by it. God Bless