Gloria, You didn't offend me........I just got a little annoyed with someone else on the list who was making a point to me, that was taken...............did not include you. Sorry about that. The marriage date that I have was obtained from LDS and that is why I too am trying to confirm......I have the Bulloch Co marriage records from Bulloch Co website and though they include 1796 etc., the marriage is not documented for Isham and Mary. It's often difficult to source data so far back..........I know because I have stacks of information on many families. Are you an Ellarbee descendant? My husband is a descendant of Ellarbee and Stafford. Sherry