Looking for spouse and children of Rhoda Grantham born abt 1843, dau of Elijah Grantham b 1808 and Elizabeth Whitley. Or, was she in fact the dau of Elijah Grantham and second wife, Miriah Durham. I belive that when I merged my files that it did not work like I wanted in trying to correct duplicates, I have messed my files up for some families, especially this one of Elijah Grantham b 1808 S.C. and wives Elizabeth Whitley and Mariah Durham. I have the children of Elijah and Elizabeth Whitley as: Sarah b 1826 married John Collins. Jackson b 1830 m Anna Sears Elijah b 1841 Rhoda b 1843 Elizabeth b 1845 m Jesse Carver and had child Minnie Belle Carver. I have a problem with this because there were abt 4 years between the first two children, 10 or 11 years until the next child. What were they doing for 10 years? Thanks, Connie