Yes, Joe, it was me , Doris. I am the mouthy one on the list ! Your cousin lives in California, her e-mail address is [email protected] she is coming to visit me next month, on her way to a family reunion. You might want to ask her about that. The reunion , that is. To everyone that responded to my letter>>>>Thank you ! I'm really not old, I've just been around for a while. I started drawing my SS last Jan, and it made me want to cry, until the checks started coming in, and I realized that I could stay home and do genealogy and not have to go to work LOL > Doris