Sandy, I echo Bobbie's words of encouragement. Somewhere someone might--even now--be reading these words and your connection will be made. Believe it or not, while I am the "listowner" for this discussion group I have yet to find the connection to my FLEMING ancestor, Agnes FLEMING. But I'll keep posting her name from time to time and perhaps someone will be reading. As I said in my Christmas message, I've had a lot more successes than failures. Hang in there! Bob Francis FLEMING surname listowner