If you subscribed to the list with one email address like [email protected] and you use a different address like [email protected] to try to send to the list it will not make it on the list. RootsWeb is a closed email list forum. You MUST send mail from the address to which you are subscribed from. Otherwise it will never make it here unless the maintainer happens to catch the bounce and forwards it. Also when you are unsubscribing you must use the address from which you are subscribed!