Hi Janet, Gravestones: not sure what happened in Fermanagh, but certainly in Glasnevin, and also in London cemeteries, graves held 6 to 8 people and areas of the cemetery were set aside for poorer people to share graves. There were no headstones. Even family graves did not always have headstones. My GARLANDs in Dublin had a family grave but could not afford a headstone for it from 1907 through to the 1940s. Another cousin of mine bought a headstone for his parents grave in 2010. They died in 1950 and 1980! Wooden crosses were cheap to make and were used in the past, but these did not last more than about 50 years. So in these cases the only way of locating a grave would be if the priest or funeral company kept records. Val Mc in Brighton UK