<A HREF="http://www.ngsgenealogy.org/about/content/committees/gene4_stan.html">Cl ick here: About NGS: Standards and Guidelines</A> I would like to share with my fellow FAYS a gentle reminder to be respectful of the other guy. We folks that are hooked on genealogy can sometimes forget that others don't share our enthusiasm, hard as that is to believe ;) Sometimes, events come along in life that rock our world in ways we wouldn't ever be able to predict. After 25 years of freely sharing genealogical information we found ourselves being stalked by a crazy man. While we had not posted our children's genealogical information online, a distant cousin of my husband's did. Without consulting us first. Our stalker has died and we are cautiously relaxing, but see what kind of things can happen? Please, strictly abide to the current standard of not posting information for any event more recent than 1920. If you are thinking of it-be certain to obtain written approval from the person concerned first. In our research we use a permission slip. If folks don't wish to give permission we simply thank them anyway, and tell them we understand. Believe me-we do! Thanks for giving time to my two-cents worth. We sure do enjoy the FAY list and appreciate everyone's efforts. Holly Ricci-Canham 11