I still have the napkin. It's one of those little folded paper napkins like you used to get at Woolworth's lunch counter. On it, in pencil, in my Dad's unmistakable backhand, it says: Harry Greaves 1830-1893 Anna Rogers Greaves 1832-1907 Daddy & Mama went back to Beaver Falls, Pennsylvania in 1969 or 1970 to visit Mama's Uncle Harry. Harry Greaves (Sr.) and Anna Rogers Greaves were Uncle Harry's parents - and Mama's grandparents. Mama was just beginning to get interested in genealogy, so they visited the graves at Beaver Falls' Grandview Cemetery, and Daddy copied the dates. I also had a scrap of paper with the notation that "Harry Greaves is not buried in the grave with the marker. His grave is in a different area, down over the hill." I puzzled about that, but, well, people do strange things. Years later, as I worked on trying to knock down my brick wall of who Harry's and Anna's parents were, I began to find a wide assortment of possible birth years for Great-Grandpa Harry Greaves, who also went by Henry Greaves, which I would later learn was his birth name, and his wife, Anna Rogers Greaves. Censuses and marriage records gave varying ages that would make his birthdate somewhere between 1834 and 1837. Anna was even worse! Her birthdate, based on various records, fell somewhere between 1832 and 1850. (Mama said her mother lied about her age. I see where she learned it!) So verifying the information on that paper napkin became my focus. I contacted a lookup volunteer in Beaver Falls and asked if he could locate the graves and verify the information, and possibly take a photograph for me. This person took photos of all the Greaves tombstones he could find, and also sent me map from the cemeterty office! But, while Uncle Harry & Aunt Ida were there, and he sent me a photo of their tombstone, he could find no record of Harry & Anna! I KNEW there had been a tombstone for them back in 1970, so why would it not be there now??? I was puzzled! Sometime later, a second person contacted me regarding my request. I explained that someone had taken pictures for me, but had been unable to locate stones for Harry & Anna. A few days later an e-mail brought the solution to the puzzle: She had mailed me photos of the tombstone, but wanted to explain the mystery - Harry & Ida are on one side of the stone, and Harry & Anna are on the other! It was an upright stone, and Harry & Anna were on the back! So now I have the correct birthdates for both of them. Sort-of. Harry was actually born in 1834. But, that's genealogy. Uncle Harry died in 1884 in Beaver Falls. His housekeeper, Mrs. Fisher, disposed of his belongings, including his family photo album! It has never been found. Now I have another story to chase down. Uncle Harry told Mama that his dad's parents lived to be very old. Actually, I have three different notes on this. Henry/Harry Greaves' father was a doctor in England (Sheffield area), who lived to be over 100 and died falling off a horse. Another note says he was 117 and died either falling off a buggy or in a buggy crash. And yet another note says that Henry/Harry's mother lived to be over 100 years old and died either falling off the porch or falling down the stairs! Well, there's probably a grain of truth in this somewhere. I haven't found anyone this old in the censuses. Maybe it was a relative further back - not Henry's father and mother. If anyone sees a record of a VERY OLD Greaves in the Sheffield area (most likely Rotherham), please let me know! Maybe another cemetery hunt is in order!