I did say that I would write more fully later (haven't had time yet, I'm going to try to do it now all is quiet at home) I have already given quite a bit of personal detail about my husband's bio grandmother Ethel Mary Best and the sad story associated with her. Having also only joined the group today I wanted to make a quick contact to test the response. Is the subject TITLE really THAT important? Surely we are all here for the same reason, that is to trace our Best connections...? Kind of makes any subject heading quite irrelevant, doesn't it? Lindsay