Well I' going to send an answer to the list,hoping you see it. I agree with you,I did sign up for a county in Tn.- I'm in Idaho and things started getting out of hand. I was getting emails because some of the questions didn't stay in the list. I was overwhelmed with it all. I only said I would help with the page-not do the work for them. I have been doing genealogy for 30 years and 2 yrs. ago dot the computer. All the answers are not out on the net. We all still haft to look at M. film and lots of leg work. PLEASE do not judge us all by what some take for granted. Also have you'r wife take it easy. I don't know her,so try and make her know we all will understand if she takes some time for her self. Some have forgotten all we have is time. Wishing you and you'r wife - LOVE - UNDERSTANDING - and WISHING SHE IS BETTER SOON. and yes I an screaming this to you. Jerry/Idaho