I have a Thomas A. Durkan b. 1819 d. 10/31/1903 Buried in Exeter, Nebraska I have a photo of his headstone, and sharing his headstone is Susan M. Durkan b.1844 d. 1922 The age difference between these two is 37 years, but they are listed as Father and Mother on their headstone. Next to them is a headstone that reads Thomas W. Durkan 1879 - 1900 Son