You're welcome, Jean, all of you. I wondered since if I was being over cautious, but I have heard from other people that its not uncommon to find. As it happens, I have heard from the lady again this morning. She tells me she is using "brother's keeper", software, which I've not heard of. She is willing, so, maybe I will find more ancestry through her, or not. ;-) Janet ----- Original Message ----- From: "J Y Phillpotts" <[email protected]> > Thanks Janet, a timely warning. We've all been caught at various times > as most of us are generous by nature. (Yes, it is in the Scottish > genes!!) I go cautiously now until I'm sure it's going to be a > "sharing" experience, then they can get my all. Fortunately I have > found some lovely genealogical cousins. > > Jean >