Dot Jo did your comments come out of my head????? I use to volunteer at the local food pantry & I saw so much that it would make you sick. After a person spends all day around some of those people listening to their sob stories then you see them in a Convince store buying Lottery Tickets it just makes a person sick. I saw a friend of mine do that very thing the same day that the Local Ministerial Fellowship had paid $300.00 on propane for her. I jumped all over her & turned her into the Fellowship so the next time she ask for help they turned her down. Both her & her hubby work but they don't manage their money so when it comes Tax Time or time to buy propane they don't have the money. I mean DAH doesn't she realize that it is an annual thing or every 2 months for propane. Sorry to rant but I am sick of the Free Loaders. Wee, Marilyn ----- Original Message ----- From: "Dorothy Bowles" <dotjo1@suddenlink.net> To: <down-home-chatter@rootsweb.com> Sent: Friday, January 30, 2009 7:16 PM Subject: Re: [DOWN-HOME-CHATTER] 8 Babies > Lots of info there ms.Milly, I saw her on tv with the doctors who > delivered > her they asked if she was taking fertility drugs their answer was the > family > doesn't want vital family information discussed!!!! smart interviewer > asked what are the chances with out the drugs answer about 20,0000 to 0. > LOL answer yes to the drugs!!!! answer to your > question------------------YOU AND ME. DOT JO > With these kinds of help from Social Services (Welfare) I wouldn't care at > all to see it go defunct!!!! I know there are needy, deserving people out > there that needs it and will be hurting. But I also believe that > needy,DESERVING people will be helped by churches, family and neighbors. > They may not have the name brand clothes, new cars, cell phones ( yes I > said > cell phones!!! my granddaughter got a used cell phone for Christmas a > little > girl in school made fun of it because it had a few scratches on it and > said > she and her brother were getting brand new ones in January that Social > Services was paying for them) we laughed didn't believe it, but some time > later it was published in the local paper for a cost of $3.00 those > needing > the services through a certain program with S.S. and it would be available > in Jan. > I have seen all to often in the local supermarket these same people with 3 > buggies full of groceries. best cuts of meat, pop, chips, so on and so > forth > granted this was for a month of groceries but it was also top brand > everything. An even better solution is a more complete investigation of > these people that apply for it. If you are that needy you want mind being > investigated and if you don't have something to hide. > I know I'm going to get a lot of back lash on this as there are those that > do need and deserve it. But I stand by what I said NEED AND DESERVE. If > you lied to get it then you didn't need it and don't deserve it. We all > know > those we know don't deserve it. They may need it but if you saw someone > in > need wouldn't you help if they DESERVED it? Dot Jo sick at the injustice > in America

I guess they did Marilyn!! Sorry, no I'm not...... I, too am sick of the free loaders. We have helped one of our children this year until we have helped out. Still help buy food to go on their table when we can. Not because they can do better and won't but because due to her cancer she can't work at the moment and they have had bad troubles with a home that bought since day one. He works every day and Sat. when they will let him,but at a low paying job that doesn't meet the necessaries let a lone extras. Then to see these "poor" welfare people out buying name brand, talking on cell phones, driving almost new cars eating out every day instead of cooking MAKES ME PUKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! to think while me and mine work every day to meet the needs of our family they are sitting up watching colored TV and drinking beer getting ready for Super Bowl paid for by me and my WORKING family. Now do you want me to start making comments from my meanness????? Dot Jo iginal Message ----- From: "donrickman" <mdrick@centurytel.net> To: <down-home-chatter@rootsweb.com> Sent: Friday, January 30, 2009 8:38 PM Subject: Re: [DOWN-HOME-CHATTER] 8 Babies > > Dot Jo did your comments come out of my head????? I use to volunteer at > the > local food pantry & I saw so much that it would make you sick. After a > person spends all day around some of those people listening to their sob > stories then you see them in a Convince store buying Lottery Tickets it > just > makes a person sick. I saw a friend of mine do that very thing the same > day > that the Local Ministerial Fellowship had paid $300.00 on propane for her. > I jumped all over her & turned her into the Fellowship so the next time > she > ask for help they turned her down. Both her & her hubby work but they > don't > manage their money so when it comes Tax Time or time to buy propane they > don't have the money. I mean DAH doesn't she realize that it is an annual > thing or every 2 months for propane. Sorry to rant but I am sick of the > Free Loaders. Wee, Marilyn > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Dorothy Bowles" <dotjo1@suddenlink.net> > To: <down-home-chatter@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Friday, January 30, 2009 7:16 PM > Subject: Re: [DOWN-HOME-CHATTER] 8 Babies > > >> Lots of info there ms.Milly, I saw her on tv with the doctors who >> delivered >> her they asked if she was taking fertility drugs their answer was the >> family >> doesn't want vital family information discussed!!!! smart interviewer >> asked what are the chances with out the drugs answer about 20,0000 to 0. >> LOL answer yes to the drugs!!!! answer to your >> question------------------YOU AND ME. DOT JO >> With these kinds of help from Social Services (Welfare) I wouldn't care >> at >> all to see it go defunct!!!! I know there are needy, deserving people >> out >> there that needs it and will be hurting. But I also believe that >> needy,DESERVING people will be helped by churches, family and neighbors. >> They may not have the name brand clothes, new cars, cell phones ( yes I >> said >> cell phones!!! my granddaughter got a used cell phone for Christmas a >> little >> girl in school made fun of it because it had a few scratches on it and >> said >> she and her brother were getting brand new ones in January that Social >> Services was paying for them) we laughed didn't believe it, but some >> time >> later it was published in the local paper for a cost of $3.00 those >> needing >> the services through a certain program with S.S. and it would be >> available >> in Jan. >> I have seen all to often in the local supermarket these same people with >> 3 >> buggies full of groceries. best cuts of meat, pop, chips, so on and so >> forth >> granted this was for a month of groceries but it was also top brand >> everything. An even better solution is a more complete investigation of >> these people that apply for it. If you are that needy you want mind >> being >> investigated and if you don't have something to hide. >> I know I'm going to get a lot of back lash on this as there are those >> that >> do need and deserve it. But I stand by what I said NEED AND DESERVE. If >> you lied to get it then you didn't need it and don't deserve it. We all >> know >> those we know don't deserve it. They may need it but if you saw someone >> in >> need wouldn't you help if they DESERVED it? Dot Jo sick at the >> injustice >> in America > > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > DOWN-HOME-CHATTER-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without > the quotes in the subject and the body of the message

Dot Jo, My question is, if the lady that just delivered 8 babies, all still in the hospital, how did she get the fertility drugs.? This is very pricey, and those that want children and could give them a good home, can't afford the fertility clinics. Just really curious about this one, Sam. > >> >> Lots of info there ms.Milly, I saw her on tv with the doctors who >> delivered >> her they asked if she was taking fertility drugs their answer was the >> family >> doesn't want vital family information discussed!!!! smart interviewer >> asked what are the chances with out the drugs answer about 20,0000 to 0. >> LOL answer yes to the drugs!!!! answer to your >> question------------------YOU AND ME. DOT JO >> With these kinds of help from Social Services (Welfare) I wouldn't care >> at >> all to see it go defunct!!!! I know there are needy, deserving people >> out >> there that needs it and will be hurting. But I also believe that >> needy,DESERVING people will be helped by churches, family and neighbors. >> They may not have the name brand clothes, new cars, cell phones ( yes I >> said >> cell phones!!! my granddaughter got a used cell phone for Christmas a >> little >> girl in school made fun of it because it had a few scratches on it and >> said >> she and her brother were getting brand new ones in January that Social >> Services was paying for them) we laughed didn't believe it, but some >> time >> later it was published in the local paper for a cost of $3.00 those >> needing >> the services through a certain program with S.S. and it would be >> available >> in Jan. >> I have seen all to often in the local supermarket these same people with >> 3 >> buggies full of groceries. best cuts of meat, pop, chips, so on and so >> forth >> granted this was for a month of groceries but it was also top brand >> everything. An even better solution is a more complete investigation of >> these people that apply for it. If you are that needy you want mind >> being >> investigated and if you don't have something to hide. >> I know I'm going to get a lot of back lash on this as there are those >> that >> do need and deserve it. But I stand by what I said NEED AND DESERVE. If >> you lied to get it then you didn't need it and don't deserve it. We all >> know >> those we know don't deserve it. They may need it but if you saw someone >> in >> need wouldn't you help if they DESERVED it? Dot Jo sick at the >> injustice >> in America > > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > DOWN-HOME-CHATTER-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without > the quotes in the subject and the body of the message ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to DOWN-HOME-CHATTER-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message

Sam, It's called beating the system!! Some people have the system down pat they can get when no one else can. Don't ask me how but they know how to do it and will tell you "you went at it all wrong" We have a young man that lives below us fully capable of working,sleeps all day and watches tv and drinks beer all night when asked why he doesn't work his answer was Why should I, if I get a job I have to pay child support. this way she gets government help and I pay nothing. Now I know dead beat husbands are hunted down and made to pay. The only thing I can figure on this one is mother knows dad isn't going to always pay so why turn him in as a dead beat daddy. Either way she loses!!! Most of these people have to lie to get help. Dot Jo ----- Original Message ----- From: "Sam Loudermilk" <samgospel@yahoo.com> To: <down-home-chatter@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, January 31, 2009 12:17 PM Subject: Re: [DOWN-HOME-CHATTER] 8 Babies > > > > Dot Jo, My question is, if the lady that just delivered 8 babies, all > still in the hospital, how did she get the fertility drugs.? This is > very pricey, and those that want children and could give them a good home, > can't afford the fertility clinics. Just really curious about this one, > Sam. >> >>> >>> Lots of info there ms.Milly, I saw her on tv with the doctors who >>> delivered >>> her they asked if she was taking fertility drugs their answer was the >>> family >>> doesn't want vital family information discussed!!!! smart > interviewer >>> asked what are the chances with out the drugs answer about 20,0000 to > 0. >>> LOL answer yes to the drugs!!!! answer to your >>> question------------------YOU AND ME. DOT JO >>> With these kinds of help from Social Services (Welfare) I wouldn't > care >>> at >>> all to see it go defunct!!!! I know there are needy, deserving people > >>> out >>> there that needs it and will be hurting. But I also believe that >>> needy,DESERVING people will be helped by churches, family and > neighbors. >>> They may not have the name brand clothes, new cars, cell phones ( yes > I >>> said >>> cell phones!!! my granddaughter got a used cell phone for Christmas a >>> little >>> girl in school made fun of it because it had a few scratches on it and >>> said >>> she and her brother were getting brand new ones in January that Social >>> Services was paying for them) we laughed didn't believe it, but > some >>> time >>> later it was published in the local paper for a cost of $3.00 those >>> needing >>> the services through a certain program with S.S. and it would be >>> available >>> in Jan. >>> I have seen all to often in the local supermarket these same people > with >>> 3 >>> buggies full of groceries. best cuts of meat, pop, chips, so on and so >>> forth >>> granted this was for a month of groceries but it was also top brand >>> everything. An even better solution is a more complete investigation > of >>> these people that apply for it. If you are that needy you want mind >>> being >>> investigated and if you don't have something to hide. >>> I know I'm going to get a lot of back lash on this as there are > those >>> that >>> do need and deserve it. But I stand by what I said NEED AND DESERVE. > If >>> you lied to get it then you didn't need it and don't deserve > it. We all >>> know >>> those we know don't deserve it. They may need it but if you saw > someone >>> in >>> need wouldn't you help if they DESERVED it? Dot Jo sick at the >>> injustice >>> in America >> >> >> >> ------------------------------- >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> DOWN-HOME-CHATTER-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' > without >> the quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > DOWN-HOME-CHATTER-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' > without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > > > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > DOWN-HOME-CHATTER-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without > the quotes in the subject and the body of the message