Lindel has been so helpful to so many of us. My prayers are with her and her family. I though Kerrin's suggestion about sending a card with mention of our locale is a good idea. I bought post cards of the Lehigh Valley PA area (including one with mention of the Molly Maguires!.) to put in with the cards. Also, this is probably a tough time for the little ones. They sometimes get lost in the shuffle and it can be so scary for them. I picked up cards and post cards to mail to them also. Kids love to receive mail so this might also be a good idea. Priscilla Bethlehem PA USA