I would invite my great grand father Isaiah (Issaac?) Decker to the gathering. I would want to know where he and his family have been hiding all these years. So many stones unturned only to find bugs but no related Deckers. Family stories have it that they were a "well to do" family living on Long Island, NY. He married my ggrandmother (Lockwood) and had a girl they named James (why?). My ggrandmother said they treated her like a servant that only purpose was to clean and bear children for them, so she left. Somewhere they found out that Issiah lived into the 1930s but I can not find anything on him or any of his family. Merry