O. K. if Joel Charles is Henrys son he named the boy for the Charles that married his sister Mary.?? And then Cynthia would have been a sister or a 1/2 sister to Joel. as if she was born in Ky before 1810 she was the dau of Henry and Catherine. This is one of the reasons I beleived that Catherine and Cynthia were sisters. and that Cynthia came to Ind with them then when Catherine died she married Henry. I also thought there were two daughters born to them in Ky. lets see in 1820 there were 4 girls under 10 in the house Lavina was born 1817 Sarah was born 1819 And maybe Parmelia. was born before 1820 so we need another one. and then there was I that was 10 to 15 That would have been the Cynthia. Does this make sense Mary Lou