Dave...I didn't feel chatised....too old for that!!! And hope you did not by my words either. Daddy always said I have a big mouth! Your response to your daughter's question was perfect! She's a lucky lady to have you for a Dad. And I hope your Deb knows how lucky she is to have you for a hubby. Also would like to say that I found the posts of both Paulette and tharper very moving... (Donna sends Dave Snow a hug just because...) _________________________________________________________________ Send and receive Hotmail on your mobile device: http://mobile.msn.com