TJ, I like you....<LOL>. Not sure of the 22 years in Law Enforcement.....you should have put me in Jail a long..long...time ago. Look.. 7 years alone and in pain..is not how you should spend your life.... I don't care what you have to say.......NOBODY should endour that degree of pain... (Do you know that there are many women on this List who are in the same 'Boat' as you...they share the same pain that you do in Loniness...they settle for something less than they're entitled too....that is....someone who holds closely at night...kisses them in the night....is glad you're there...so that they can...feel you next to them.....you think this is different than it was 2 hundred years ago????...it's not)...I'll tell you a true story..so that we don't get to far away from genealogy here.....and have the assholes complain........ Dave PS: Your lack of answers to me women...to the original question...'Dad, Am I a good Mom ?' ....is deafening....Your lack of response tells me a great deal about you.......I know that YOU have ALL asked THE Question.....All Mothers DO ask this question... if to nobody else than themselves........What re-assurance were you seeking from your Father????....not your Mother...but your Father.....?????? PLEASE answer Ashley's original question to me.........I would like to understand the dynamics here... so that I can re-assure her appropiately....She is IMPORTANT to me.....I consider her a Very Good Mother....but, then...I picked her own adoptive mother to raise her....so my judgement is lacking here....You and I both know that there are multiple questions being asked here that will establish the relationship that she has, not only, with me but also with ,and I add, PRIMARILY with her Mother...which is compounded in that, she has an adoptive mother, but more importantly, that her adoptive mother's mother is a Bigot. To the story.......I'm tired..later...been up since 2 AM.......the answers from you 'southern women'....as Debbie refers to you......is more important to me than any story.....even-though it details the McKenzies of Benton County ....sucking blood from their cattle in order to stay alive ....tiz true....I will give you the history back to 1055...and you will be proud...in Big Sandy..but, NOT the connection that you want....that I have.....and you can't !!!!!!! ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- ----------------- At 05:06 PM 1/16/02 -0800, TJstubby wrote: >Nope stayting single at 45 its to hard to date after 7 years of being >single: ever women wants to Change me. Sort of Hard 22 years in Law >Enforcement. >Gets you set in your ways. TJ >----- Original Message ----- >From: David L Snow <dlsnow1@qwest.net> >To: TJstubby <TJStubby@msn.com> >Sent: Friday, January 11, 2002 5:31 AM >Subject: Re: Dad...Am I a good Mom ??? > > >> Hey Stubby, >> >> You're a Hoot...!!!!!!! >> >> Sorry for your loss...but then, maybe not..LOL.... >> >> Did 'They' tell you....'You can do better' than Her...??? >> >> Suspect they have..'they're' right, ya know.... >> >> Think you already have.... >> >> Dave >> >> PS: Between you & me.....this is a very 'big' problem facing society >> now......50+ year old women seperated from their husbands of many >> years....tell you a story later..... >> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- >> >> At 10:05 PM 1/15/02 -0800, you wrote: >> >They find they cann't go to their Mom because she is my ex. and New >> >Boyfriend ( 7 years now) LOL doesn't want em around.Her loss my gain. >> >----- Original Message ----- >> >From: David L Snow <dlsnow1@qwest.net> >> >To: TJstubby <TJStubby@msn.com>; <DanvilleCrossing-L@rootsweb.com> >> >Sent: Friday, January 11, 2002 4:25 AM >> >Subject: Re: Dad...Am I a good Mom ??? >> > >> > >> >> At 09:07 PM 1/15/02 -0800, TJstubby wrote: >> >> >> >> Hey Dad, >> >> >> >> 3 Daughters, but only 1 grand-daughter..... >> >> >> >> Appreciate your reply (surprised at a Dad answering my >question.....you're >> >> the wrong gender to the question posed)... >> >> >> >> But...take what I can get.... >> >> >> >> Stubby.....your girls ever ask you about how YOU felt about the how >they >> >> MOTHERED ??? >> >> >> >> Let me say this...for a daughter to ask her father what his thoughts >are >> >> concerning her performance as a Mother, is a significant compliment to >> >him, >> >> in that, his daughter has enough respect of him to consider his opinion >to >> >> be important....she believes his judgement (by what he tried to teach >her >> >> as worthy).... >> >> >> >> Yea...Nay....???? >> >> >> >> Dave >> >> >> >> >3 Daughter 5 grandaughters : You don't know until their raised >Hon.Just >> >Love >> >> >em and do what is best for you and them. Dad >> >> >----- Original Message ----- >> >> >From: David L Snow <dlsnow1@qwest.net> >> >> >To: <DanvilleCrossing-L@rootsweb.com> >> >> >Sent: Friday, January 11, 2002 2:48 AM >> >> >Subject: Dad...Am I a good Mom ??? >> >> > >> >> > >> >> >> Whooaaa...........got THIS question last night...from my daughter >with >> >a 2 >> >> >> month year old..... >> >> >> >> >> >> Slapped me 'upside the face'....she did... >> >> >> >> >> >> Haven't sorted 'it' all out yet......I'll tell you my answer later >> >...to >> >> >> both the Men and the Women on the list...seperately... >> >> >> >> >> >> Have a question before 'The Answer'....... >> >> >> >> >> >> I'm knew to this....but.... >> >> >> >> >> >> Do you Women always ask this question of your Fathers ????? >> >> >> >> >> >> Help me here........ >> >> >> >> >> >> Dave >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> ==== DanvilleCrossing Mailing List ==== >> >> >> What do you mean my Birth Certificate expired ??? >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > >> >> > >> >> >==== DanvilleCrossing Mailing List ==== >> >> >GENEALOGY goes on... and on... and on... >> >> > >> >> >> >> >> > >> >> >