Cher, I am clueless as to what this other person's gripe is......... But I wanted you to know that even though I am new to the list and am "taking" (asking) and not contributing, I hope to be in the position to do so someday. You have been nothing but kind, informative, occasionally funny (lol) and truly happy when someone find's a cousin. It's people doing what you do (time and effort) that helps people like me. So.........if anyone has anything bad to say about you perhaps they should GET A LIFE! Thank you for being you. Becca