Dan, Your family is listed on the 1880 census at http://www.familysearch.org/default.asp , the website of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints ... the Mormons. Click on the 'search' tab at the top of the page > click on 'census' in the left hand column > choose the 1880 US census from the dropdown menu > type in the first and last name ( the surname is spelled Frayne on this census) > choose Connecticut for the state > Middlesex for the county and Middletown for the city and click on 'search' Click on the persons name and a window with his/her info will open. At the top right of the sceeen you will see a link .... 'Household' . Click it and a window showing all the members of that household will open. In your case, there is David, Nora his wife, six children including Thomas and a neice. Hope this helps, Joe