I sit here at my computer and wonder if I should even bother to apologize for making the HUGE mistake of not listing my subject line as most would have wanted. But I wonder if by apologizing I will be criticized for taking up someone's time with silly things like this... The one thing I have learned from this list is you are darned if you do and darned if you don't. I would like to believe that all you angry folks out there got that way from your "otherside" of the family. Why don't you tell people right up front that you do not tolerate people "new" and "learning?" Sincerely sorry, Margot Davis