I am sorry to use the list for this purpose, but my email for Diane Hoyt, who I met on this list, no longer works, and I don't know how to reach her! Diane, I am so sorry I haven't gotten back to you in so long. In addition to school, I have had a chronic illness that they just figured out is fibromyalgia. It has zapped the strength out of me, so I haven't been able to do more than what is absolutely necessary. I swear I will finish reading everything you have sent, send you what I have, and continue our conversation about our family. It may just not be until next summer. I am just trying to get finished with school and get my body to cooperate with me. I do think about you often and appreciate all you have done for me. Joy Sterrantino Rowley