I wrote too all possible relatives,posted message on a trillion list.asked a bunch of stupid questions,and low and behold a neightbor of my deceased grand mother in England put me in touch with a living relative that I, e-mail ocassionally. Stamps are inexpensive.Posting too list is free. try intermarriages. I am confirmed,The only stupid question is the one you don't ask.? keep on-keeping on-never quit. Roger