In a message dated 03/26/2000 8:57:22 PM CST, pa-pa@gbis.com writes: << Jewel T b July 30, 1899 LA d May 2, 1976 m Jewel McGee buried at the Henry Cemetery Lincoln Parish, LA >> Which one is the male and which is the female? I have seen it used both ways, but never like this where you need to put m or f to differentiate. Annie